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Intended Parent Profile
Questionnaire
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surrogate in hopes that it would be helpful to
other intended parents and surrogates in their search
for the perfect
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The following
questions are for the Intended Mother:
Name and Age:
When and where were you born?
Where were you raised?
How many siblings do you have?
What order were you born? (Youngest, eldest, only child?):
Is your mother living? Is your father living? Are all your
siblings
living? If not, at what age did they pass away?
List the gender and ages of any children you have and
whether the
children
are from previous relationships:
Do you have legal and physical custody of all the above
children? If
no,
please explain?
Does your family know of your plans for surrogacy? Are
they supportive?
What is your occupation?
What is your educational background?
What are your hobbies?
Do you or have you ever:
Drink?
Smoke?
Use narcotics or marijuana?
Have you ever been incarcerated for any reason?
Have you ever been in the military?
Have you ever, or are you now, under the care of a
psychiatrist or
counselor?
Have you ever been hospitalized for psychiatric care?
Have you had any significant or life threatening
illnesses? What and
when?
Are you healthy now?
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The following questions
are for
the Intended Father:
Name and Age:
When and where were you born?
Where were you raised?
How many siblings do you have?
What order were you born? (Youngest, eldest, only child?):
Is your mother living? Is your father living? Are all your
siblings
living? If not, at what age did they pass away?
List the gender and ages of any children you have and
whether the
children
are from previous relationships:
Do you have legal and physical custody of all the above
children? If
no,
please explain.
Does your family know of your plans for surrogacy? Are
they supportive?
What is your Occupation?
What is your educational background?
What are your hobbies?
Do you or have you ever:
Drink?
Smoke?
Use narcotics or marijuana?
Have you ever been incarcerated for any reason?
Have you ever been in the military?
Have you ever, or are you now, under the care of a
psychiatrist or
counselor?
Have you ever been hospitalized for psychiatric care?
Have you had any significant or life threatening
illnesses? What and
when?
Are you healthy now?
The following questions
are for
both Intended Parents:
How long have you been together/married?
How did you meet each other?
Where do you live?
Where is your home located? (I.e., city, the suburbs, or
the country?):
How long have you lived there? Do you own or rent?
Please describe in detail what your home looks like.
Describe size, a
short
description of the lay out, how many bedrooms it has, and
how your home
makes you feel.
Is your home located in reasonable distance from schools
and parks and
locations that children would enjoy?
If you have a faith or religious belief system, please
describe here:
How active are you in your faith or religious belief
system? (I.e.,
church,
bible-studies, etc.):
What are your family traditions for holidays and
birthdays? (I.e.,
which
ones you celebrate, what you do to celebrate, how involved
extended
family
is.):
How does your family handle conflict or disagreements?
What are your reasons for choosing surrogacy?
How long have you wanted to do a surrogacy and when did
you start
looking
for a surrogate mother?
Are you seeking gestational surrogacy or traditional, and
why?
What procedure do you prefer to have used for conception,
clinic, or
home
insemination if using Traditional Surrogacy?
What are your desires regarding being present during the
birth of your
child?
To the wife: Please describe your husband. Describe his
personality,
what
you like about him the most, what you might not like about
him. (If
anything):
To the husband: Please describe your wife. Describe her
personality,
what
you like best about her, and what you don't like about her
(if
anything):
Wife: Describe to me what your husband looks like to you:
Husband: Describe to me what your wife looks like to you:
Wife: Describe your wife's personality, from your point of
view.
Husband: Describe your husband's personality, from your
point of view.
Wife: What kind of a parent will your husband be?
Husband: What kind of a parent will your wife be?
How do you feel about the surrogate staying in your home
during
conception
and the pregnancy?
Is your family able to meet the financial needs of
covering the
surrogacy
costs such as medical, legal, living expenses?
What expectations do you have regarding coverage of
medical care,
conception, legal expenses, clothing, and room & board
for your
surrogate?
If your doctor recommended an amniocentesis, how would you
feel about
this
and would you want the SM to consent?
What are your views regarding abortion in the event that a
baby is
conceived
and then is determined by a physician to have birth
defects?
How many attempts would you be willing to try in order to
conceive a
child?
Are you willing to accept twins or triplets if a multiple
birth
occurred?
How do you envision your roll during the pregnancy of your
surrogate?
Do you
see yourself heavily involved in the pregnancy?
What do you think of filming and taking pictures from the
time you meet
your
surrogate until the birth? How do you feel about filming
and taking
pictures
of the birth of your child?
What amount of contact do you want with the surrogate once
your child
arrives? (I.e., pictures, letters, visits, phone calls)
What information do you plan on giving the child about the
surrogacy
once
the child is older? What age do you plan on giving the
child this
information?
If your surrogate completes a successful surrogacy for
you, and you
become a
parent, do you think you will want a sibling for your
child? If yes,
would
you be likely to want to use the same surrogate?
What are your plans for childcare after the child is born?
(I.e.,
daycare,
stay at home mom or dad, etc?)
If the transfer or insems failed, how soon would you want
to try again?
If a surrogacy doesn't work out, what do you plan to do
next? (I.e.,
adoption, etc.)
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